<正> I have reason to feel good about my life. I have beenmarried 31 years to Suzette, who bore me two wonderfulchildren. I am a successful and respected rabbir①. We livein a nice home and can afford to travel on our yacations. But if I could change anything, it would be those yearswhen I focused on work and ignored the needs of my wifeand young children. Like most men, I put my careerfirst. *My job was the 'other woman' that diverted time