In this paper,we consider the multi-dimensional asymptotic preserving unified gas kinetic scheme for gray radiative transfer equations on distorted quadrilateral meshes.Different from the former scheme [J.Comput.Phys.285(2015),265-279] on uniform meshes,in this paper,in order to obtain the boundary fluxes based on the framework of unified gas kinetic scheme(UGKS),we use the real multi-dimensional reconstruction for the initial data and the macro-terms in the equation of the gray transfer equations.We can prove that the scheme is asymptotic preserving,and especially for the distorted quadrilateral meshes,a nine-point scheme [SIAM J.SCI.COMPUT.30(2008),1341-1361] for the diffusion limit equations is obtained,which is naturally reduced to standard five-point scheme for the orthogonal meshes.The numerical examples on distorted meshes are included to validate the current approach.