There are aspects to all of us that,if they were exposed to a harsh or unsympathetic critic,would result in severe humiliation and mockery.Under the pressure of events,we shout,slam doors and let out screams(or wails).We have episodes of absurd clumsiness,we bump into doors,trip and drop things down our front.We’re worried pretty much all the time:about how others see us,about where our careers are going,and about everything