At a certain moment in Nietzsche’s life,the idea came to him of what he called"the love of your fate".Whatever your fate is,whatever happens to you,you just say,"This is what I need."It may look like something unpleasant,but go at it as though it were a chance,a challenge.If you bring love to that moment-not discouragement-you will find the strength is there.Any disaster that you can live through is an improvement in your character,your stature,and your life.